Cyber Monday

Happy Cyber Monday, Y’all!

In the spirit of the much less frantic & much more fabulous internet version of Black Friday, I have put together a list of my Top Three Etsy Shops of 2009.  This year I’m trying to do as much hand-made as I can for the Christmas holidays.  I’ve managed to ‘hand make’ my way through over half of my Gift List thanks in part to these three fantastic ladies that I’m showcasing today.

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Melissa at SomethingOrrOther puts together some really cool, really unexpected pieces of jewelry that I adore.  This piece is from her Noir Collection, in which she really plays with the darker metals and more unique settings.  Not only is she handmade, but for those of you in Texas, she’s also local.  Look at us! We’re so damn sustainable.

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Rachel at Elephantine is one of my internet crushes.  She’s just so cool I can’t even stand it.  This year she turned her etsy shop into one of the most enticing jewelry shops on the internet.  For really reasonable prices you can buy one of her many variations on the same idea: simple beauty.  All of her pieces have this ethereal quality to them; they all make me feel like if I was wearing them, I would be one step closer to embodying the presence of Grace Kelly.  You know.  Or something like that.

Click on the photo to go to http://www.etsy.com/shop/HelloBirdie

MP at HelloBirdie is one of my besties.  She’s fantastic and talented and some days I wish I had a little girl of my own just so I could buy her lots of things that MP has made.  Want a perfect tutu?  She makes ‘em.  Want a Forest Fairy Costume?  She’s created one.  Need a really beautiful print of Chicago architecture?  She’s got that, too.  One of the best parts about her is that she inspires me to take my goal of a “Handmade Christmas” to a new level.  She’s always working on something new and fun.  Every time I go to her (beautifully decorated) house I walk away planning no less than 3 copy-cat projects.  If you have an idea for something you’d like to have made for someone in your life but don’t know quite how to make it, you need MP and her endless creative masterminding.  You’d be hard-pressed to think up a handmade project that she couldn’t successfully tackle.

Today I…

Got up early to do some Christmas shopping.
Browsed around Half Price Books for almost an hour.
Cleaned my house, including dusting! With lemon scented duster!
Made great strides in the areas of a.) gift packaging and b.) Pharmacology tutoring.
Had a smoothie from Smoothie King.
Watched enough Premium On Demand television to feel that I have definitely taken advantage of AT&T’s preview weekend.
Ordered enough sushi-to-go that the sushi restaurant assumed that I was ordering sushi for two.  I was not ordering sushi for two. (*I would have been ordering sushi for two if The Cheese had come to celebrate his birthday with me.  Alas, he did not.  And so I ate all his sushi.)
Shed some tears of happiness while eating sushi, drinking wine and watching this week’s episodes of So You Think You Can Dance.
Engaged in several craft-oriented activities in my living room while Zack was at work.
And last but not least: engaged in one very non-craft-oriented activity in my living room after Zack came home from work, WINK WINK.

Not bad.  Not bad at all.

Culture Corner with SarahThe

Betsy and I went to go see Fort Worth Symphony Orchestra play Christmas music at Bass Hall tonight.  Gabby’s parents gave me the tickets and I took Betsy cause she and I fancy ourselves co-explorers of the metroplex’s various arts scenes.

It’s not even going to be necessary for me to tell you all about how awesome it was or how much fun we had once I tell you one simple fact about the evening.

It snowed inside Bass Hall at the end of the concert.

Holy Crap.  It just doesn’t get a lot cooler than that.

Two Scenes from Life with the In-Laws

You know those moments in life when you know for sure you’ve made it?  Whether it’s a sports game win or familial acceptance, you know what I’m talking about.  Small snapshots of time you can look back on and say, “that, that moment.  That’s when I knew we’d won/I was a part/etc.  I had that moment on Wednesday.

Being without a voice since last Saturday has been painful.  Really, really painful.  I’m super bad at not talking.  Wednesday we celebrated Thanksgiving at Zack’s parents house.  His dad told us, while we were all sitting at the dinner table, that the thing he was grateful for this year was the peace and quiet of this holiday, more specifically, the quiet that was a direct result of the fact that I couldn’t talk at all.  And as Zack’s dad looked at me without a smile on his face–as serious as a heart attack, I knew beyond a shadow of a doubt that I was no longer one of the married-in’s.  I’m just part of the family.

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Today we went to the Parade of Lights with Zack’s parents, Sarah1, Matt and The Girls.  The parade itself was fun; we watched from the 4th floor of one of the many Bass Parking Garages in downtown Fort Worth.  We had a blast watching Abbie and Kate watch the parade go by–giggling every time Kate said “LOOK AT THAT!” in her mumbled 2 year-old excitement.  On the way back to the car Kevin started entertaining his eldest granddaughter, Abbie, by trying to “race” her.  He was pretend jogging down the sidewalk, and beside him, she was running full bore.  Looking up at him and laughing as they were racing, Abbie did not see the fire hydrant that was directly in her path.

Oops.

Good news, though.  The diamond shaped puncture wound was pretty shallow.  And extra bonus: she’d stopped crying by the time we got back to the car.

The Turkey Trot Race Report

I ran today for the first time in two weeks and two days.  I participated in the Martin Family Tradition of running the Dallas Turkey Trot.  I’ve done this once before, two years ago.  I walked the 3 mile course with Sarah1, Paula & The Girls.

I’ve been sick, as you all well know.  I am voice-less, harboring an upper respiratory infection and not exactly in my top running condition.  Icing on the cake: Sarah1 and I knocked down a couple of bottles of red wine last night at Martin Thanksgiving dinner.  Running 8 miles was a stupid decision, to say the least.  A stupid decision that I purposefully made because I can not back down from a challenge.

Zack ran with me the whole race (despite the fact that he could have easily finished the 8 miles about 35 minutes faster than I did) to encourage me and keep me company.  We kept a nice pace through the 5 mile mark, and that’s when my body started to fall apart.  My left knee developed a very sharp very painful stabbing sensation behind its knee cap.  My hips and butt and inner thighs and EVERYTHING hurt really badly, but it was the knee that finally did me in.  We walked and jogged the rest of the way in to the finish line, after bring joined at about mile 6 by Zack’s dad who we spotted running by us in a crowd.

Now I’m just plain tired.  My legs are pretty sore (which is to be expected), my knee still feels like someone’s trying to pry off my knee cap with an ice pick, and I’ve developed a pretty severe pain in my right ankle–I assume from running weird during the last 4 miles to try to compensate for the knee pain in the other leg.  I didn’t have any panic attacks while we were running, but I did have to breathe my way through some disappointment hyperventilation a few times.  Zack was always quick to remind me that today was a big victory for me, whether I was able to run the whole 8 miles or not.  Six months ago I had a hard time running for 90 seconds in a row, and today I bravely choose to Y right* at the 3 mile/8 mile split.  That alone means a lot — that I feel confident enough in myself to attempt to run for 8 miles.

So sure, I feel like death warmed over.  And sure I’m sad that I got sick and missed my last two weeks of training, and that I wasn’t able to run across the finish line and say, “I did it and I never stopped.”  But that doesn’t mean that I failed.  I just had to change my perspective a little bit.  What I accomplished today was an accomplishment.  A punishing accomplishment that is going to require me to pay attention lest I exceed the maximum daily does of Ibuprofen, yes, but an accomplishment nevertheless.

*Right, not Left. Thanks for the correction, Zip.

Abbie Says

After taking Abbie to the bathroom before Thanksgiving dinner, I told her, “hang on a second, cause Tia needs to go potty, too.”

As I was going to the bathroom, Abbie started entertaining herself by pretending that I was a little person that she was taking care of me — playing like she was babysitting me instead of the other way around.

“Here, Tia, you can have a snack and I’ll turn on the TV so you can sit right there and be quiet,”  she began her monologue.  She asked,”What would you like for a snack?  Would you like candy, candy or beans?”  I said that I supposed I wanted beans.  “Good.  We’ll get you some beans, then.  And after that, you can sit and watch your shows and be quiet for a little while.”

When I was telling Sarah1 about our game of pretend, she just laughed and said, “I think that’s an exact quote.”

Twins!

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Those two handsome tykes hanging out in the wagon are my fraternal twin nephews, Aydan and Brendan.  Mom, dad and I trekked down to Houston to meet them for the first time on Sunday.  And holy crap, it was awesome.

I’ve been trying to compose these words that I’m writing for two weeks, ever since my mom and dad found out that my older brother, David, was the father of two twin boys.  There’s not really any great way to tell the story of the how’s and the why’s and the when’s and the wtf’s of the past.  What I can tell you, however, is the story of now, the story of this Sunday past.

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That’s Aydan with his mom, Jamie.  Jamie is an incredible person.  She juggles a full-time job and two almost-one year old babies on her own & she’s not just barely getting by.  During the 6 hours we spent with her in her home I was constantly blown away by what an amazing job she’s doing raising these two babies.  I mean, look at the way she’s looking at Aydan in that picture!  That smile–that full bore, 100%, to-the-max smile–is the same smile that spreads across her face every time she looks at those kids.  And it’s a contagious smile, too.  In fact, if that smile was any more permanent in her house, she’d have to label it.  I only say that because Jamie shares my affinity for obsessive organization.  Everything that takes up a semi-permanent presence in her house is labeled.  And I mean Everything.  Perhaps this is the secret to maintaining your sanity whilst raising twin boys on your own.  I’ll see if I can get a study group together for that.

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This is Brendan.  He has blue eyes.  After both families spilled out a verbal Brief History of Eyecolor, my mom hit cloud 9 when it was decided that perhaps she was the person who donated to Brendan the Blue Eyes Gene.  Grandmothers are made happy quite easily, I’ve learned.

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Here’s mom holding Aydan.  This picture was taken about 5 minutes after we saw the boys for the very first time.  I was proud of mom’s restraint.  In this photo I’ve captured her resisting the carnal urge to gobble some baby cheeks.  Her lack of gobbling didn’t stop the oogling, though.  Ooooh, baby cheeks are delicious.

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Dad, as you can tell here, was equally as elated as my mom about the babies.  Dad tends to look pretty sober in pictures; he’s not a big ‘smile for the camera’ kind of a guy.  On Sunday I (easily) doubled the number of photos that exist on this planet of my father smiling.  It wasn’t hard–he didn’t stop smiling all day long.  Aydan’s pulling his hair in this one, and Brendan is looking at me to make sure I capture the greatness of his brother grabbing Grandpa’s hair with my camera.  He’s very advanced that way.  He knows that good tricks are made better by capturing them on film.

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And that’s me and Aydan.  And we’re both really, really happy.

I’m Falling Asleep As I Write This.

I’m writing this post just so that I can eek by and still claim that I made the post for the day.

But I am e.x.h.a.u.s.t.e.d., my “Sexy Phoebe Voice” has morphed into Absolutely No Voice At All, and that’s about all I’ve got the energy for tonight.  Today I got up at 3:40 a.m. and it’s now 11:45 p.m. and I’ve been to the far edge of Houston and back with my parents on a quest.

A very successful quest.

Buckle up, y’all.  Tomorrow’s post is going to have some information.

Until then, goodnight.

This Post Would Be Better Suited for Twitter

In what has turned into the weirdest 5-day progressive illness I’ve ever had, I have finally achieved the stage of The Sexy Pheobe Voice.

I’m still sure that I’m dealing with by products of allergies, but DANG.  Even with this sexy voice, I wouldn’t cry a single tear if I woke up tomorrow and magically felt all the way better.  Not one single tear.