Tonight’s Order of Operations:
Steak Fries
Chicken Nuggets
Red Wine
Sleep
Category Archives: family
February 15th is a good day.
I believe it was this day, four years ago, (ish?) That my brother-in-law met my sister-in-law, Jennifer, at The Anti-Valentine’s Day Party, (or, Valentine’s Day Recovery Party) Zack and I hosted.
Am I right? Was that (just/only*) four years ago? If so, happy meet-a-versary Jenn & Jared. Aaannnddd, I’m not saying Zack and I are trying take all the credit or anything, but, uh, you’re welcome.
(love you both.)
(*Isn’t it weird how time can seem like forever and no time at all, all at the same time? Dad was saying that it felt like just the other day that Zack and I got married, and at the same time, it feels like we’ve been married forever. I totally know what he means. It feels like Zack and I have only been married for a minute, but it also feels like we’ve never not been married. When I express that sentiment to my dad all he said was all, “Yeah, just wait until you’ve been married for 30-something years. I’m talking, like, more years married then not married. Then we can talk about the tricks that time likes to play.” He’s right, but I couldn’t admit it. I just told him to stop bragging.)
Delayed Family Christmas
We had to do family Christmas a little late this year because our (okay, my,) schedule was so wonky that the 28th of January was the first date that we could all get together. It’s a little non-traditional to have a celebration of Christmas at the end of January, but that’s kind of how we roll in my family.
Before the end of the night, we created a make-shift tri-pod and snapped a few family shots. This picture was kind of an eye-opener for me. Look how big my family is! We’ve always had a big family, because there are four kiddos, but now that two of us are married, and David’s got three kids, we’re a huge group!
FaceTime with Lucky Liz
Zack and I polished off our Impromptu Thursday Night Date Night (Chicken tacos, homemade margaritas and Drive [Ryan Gosling, w00t]) by doing a little FaceTime chatting with my family. Said FaceTiming was possible because my mom won a free iPad2* today from a bank** for refinancing her car***. So, feel free to just go ahead and call her by her new nickname, Lucky Liz.
*How many “iPad Giveaways” have you seen advertised since the iPad came out? About 3,500,000? Is that a good estimate? And how many of those have been legitimate? NONE? That’s my count, too. So how my mom tracked down (AND WON!) the only REAL iPad2 Giveaway on the planet is totally beyond me.
**Who wins things from a bank?! Banks don’t give away stuff! Ever!
***Who has good and fun things surprise them in life as a result of refinancing something?! Lucky Liz, that’s who. Lucky Liz.
28.
Throwback: My favorite pictures of Kate


I think this bottom one is my all-time favorite. Her expression is just priceless. She was only a month or two old there, and she was just starting to smile. I had just finished a baby photos shoot with her, and I still had my camera out when she started grinning at me. She was too close to my face for me to look through the viewfinder, so I just held the camera above my head and hoped that I got the shot. It’s fuzzy, and her chin is missing, but her expression makes up for the picture’s faults. That child melts my heart.
A perfect way to finish out the year.
My parents got to babysit the twins for a few days over the holidays. I saw them yesterday for the first time in over a year. They are so big, and so fun.

I brought them a couple of Tonka Trucks and they were huge hits. Zack insisted that boys love trucks, and he was right*.

This picture of me holding the twins is fuzzy, but I love it anyway. I mean, how could you not?

*(Zack is always right.)
The Pre-School Trinity
Tonight’s blog is brought to you by my brother-in-law’s latest Facebook status:
“Abbie’s prayer before bed tonight:
‘Dear God, thank you that we have Jesus, Bepaw (my dad), and God.’
Damn. Dad ranks up there with Jesus and God.”
When All Else Fails
When all else fails. When you feel so sad you don’t know what to do with yourself. When everything makes you tired and all you want to do is sleep, call your friends. Light a fire in their fire pit. Bring a old bottle of port. And laugh like you will never laugh again. Soak up the community. Live life, for it is far, far too short.

I found out this morning that my best friend’s little brother, Jordan, died unexpectedly last night. Please, send all your love and prayers to the Blakeney family.
I love you, Blakeney family. My heart is breaking with yours.
(Pictured, L to R: Corrie, Katy, Tyler and Jordan — the four Blakeney siblings.)



